The poor project manager tries to control the team rather than nurturing and encouraging them. By trying too hard and pushing the team they are blocking progress rather than encouraging it.
The wise project manager stays centred and grounded and encourages the team to function well by assisting them and dealing with any issues they may have. He knows he is there to support the team and encourage them, not to interfere.
Lao Tzu tells us:
He who would take over the world and change it,
Will not succeed.
The world is sacred,
It cannot be done.
He who would try to change it, will suffer defeat.
He who would try to seize it, will fail.
Some creatures act, some follow.
Some snort, some praise.
Some are strong, some are sick.
Some bully, some destroy.
Therefore the sage dismisses,
The excessive and the extravagant.